Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church. Hello, my boyfriend is in his second year of residency for Emergency Medicine, and we live together. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share. We have been together for around three years and I feel like now more than ever he expects me to just do things his way and not have an opinion. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands.
Sure it's lonely and hard work being a "single parent". Just ridiculous, what do they know. Good luck to you and your boyfriend. She will introduce you to the church. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord. I don't want a life of paranoia and loneliness but she is the person I want to be with and I want to ask her the most important question of my life this summer. And we are not bloody married yet. And some will do that. We'll have to discuss that, now that I actually know some things about some things.
I don't drive and we live far away from our family. I can only say that I was that girl, 10 years ago. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness. I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture. I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. Just to make things worse I am from South America, he is australian and we live in Australia, no much support here Anyway good to know that I am not the only one. You've all been so helpful.
I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. They can't seem to deal with it, and shouldn't have to. But he told me that he needs a wife who could take care of him, kids and house. I've been thinking more about your situation and another thing came to mind. I find that one of the most important things is to make sure you have a support system, whether they are other doc wives, family or friends.